When we finally understand what it means to judge ourselves and others, we reach a threshold in which we can confidently say that judgement is not what we think it is when it comes to critiquing others. The act of judging is never a positive one. Yet, as humans it is still part of our nature to do so, especially in moments where we feel it could be warranted. Since we can never really stop others from being completely non-judgmental, the next best step is to know when and when not to listen when you feel that others are judging you. Only you know yourself. Only you know what brings you the most happiness and the most confidence. Do not ever allow what others say define the person you are today. If you wake up feeling that you want to do good in this world --- in this lifetime --- take a good long look in the mirror and be very proud of who you are!
